Following
our Youth Ministry Team retreat May 30-31, we are proposing several exciting
changes that match up with the church’s vision of discipling young people. We
will have an opportunity to discuss these proposals Sunday, June 22 following
the late service. Ahead of that, here are some anticipated questions:
What is a
Splash Group?
A Splash
Group is an adult-led small group at either home or church that meets on a
weekly basis. Most Splash Groups will be comprised of 1-2 caring adult
leaders/hosts and a member of the Vanguard (see below). Each
Splash Group has its own flavor: some are by gender, some are by high school
(MRLH) some are by interest (activity-based, deeper spirituality, musical).
Each group’s leaders and members decide what the flavor of each group will be.
What’s
the Vanguard?
The Vanguard
is Tim’s Splash Group, the young leaders he has targeted for mentoring and
discipling. They are also expected to go “above and beyond” regular
youth/splash group membership, and become the face of OSLC youth ministry by
their thoughts, words and deeds. Along with Tim’s group, they are required to
be a leader in another adult-led Splash Group, and sometimes step into a
leadership role within that group. Their qualifications are that they be FAT (Faithful,
Available and Teachable).
What’s
the difference between Splash Groups and Youth Group?
Youth Group
is Tim as the leader who prepares a spiritually-fulfilling lesson or fun
activity or service event at 7 – 8:30 pm each Wednesday night for all of the 9th-12th
graders.
Splash
Groups are led by caring adults, who prepare a spiritually-fulfilling lesson or
fun activity or service event at a variety of times during the week (last year,
we had Saturday am, Sunday pm, Sunday evening, Monday evening and Thursday
evening).
The
difference is that while a single leader can effectively pour their time and
energy into at most 12 people, with six Splash groups, the number of youth who
are effectively disciple and cared for raises by a multiple of six. This means
that each Splash Group leader and Vanguard will be praying for each other,
sending each other Bible verses and devotions, and planning any special events
for the group.
The end
product of our youth groups has been good Christian kids.
The end
product of our Splash Groups is disciples of Jesus.
I have a
high school teenager.
God bless
you.
What are
the opportunities for their participation in Youth/Splash Group next year?
1) Sunday morning. We are
re-energizing our Sunday morning focus next year. Peter, Mark and Adrian from
PLU were amazing for the past two years; to top them would be impossible. We
are doing the next best thing and having JulieAnn Detweiler
lead a team of teachers on Sunday morning. One of the best things a church can
do is to provide consistent Christian leadership for their students, and I
believe JAD will be able to provide that this next year.
2) Splash
Groups. As
mentioned, we are emphasizing the small group model, led by caring adults at
different times each week. The one problem our Splash Groups suffered from last
year – 100 percent of the trouble – was logistics. What is the magic day/time/season
that your particular group of teenagers can attend on a consistent basis? I
will not bore you with the details, but finding the right day and time was
pretty tough last year, which leads to another innovation (see below.)
3) Third
Saturdays. In the past, we have had 8-10
special events – putt putt, bowling, kickball, field game, caroling at the
Alzheimer’s facility – that required a little more time and energy. Many times,
we were constrained by the Wednesday evening time and place (bowling could only
be at Narrows). This year, following each Faith in Action (3rd
Saturdays 8 am – noon, lunch to follow), we will be offering 8-10 special events. This will
emphasize the service aspect of being in a youth group as well as the ability
to have the family come along and participate in some fun and helpful
activities. Some of the Saturday activities we’ve planned include Putt Putt, ParenTeen
Jeopardy, Sing Along Sound of Music, Exodus:
Gods and Kings (movie), Bowling, Paint ball, Ultimate tourney and Footgolf.
What
happens to Wednesdays next year?
Wednesday is
no longer Youth Night…but it can be Splash Group night. If your pattern
for the past few years has been to take your kid to youth group on Wednesday
night, there will be at least one Splash Group meeting at church at that time.
Likewise, if Monday nights, Thursday nights, or Sunday nights or Saturday
mornings fit your schedule better, those or other times will probably be
available as well.
What’s
the difference between Wednesday Night Youth Group and Wednesday Night Splash
Group?
Apart from a
different adult leader, not much, except that the curriculum will probably be
more consistent! I (Tim) am not wired to follow a weekly curriculum. I chose a
topic by what I felt was most needful for my kids that week. While that is a
theory, it’s probably not the best theory. Each Splash Group runs their own
study – last year’s ran the gamut from Ruth/Esther, to David, to Screwtape
Letters to Case for Christ.
A Wednesday
Night Splash Group may not have the numbers of the whole group meeting together
– which is available Sunday mornings – but it offers an opportunity for adults
to provide Christian care and compassion to future followers of Jesus. If
Wednesday night is an ideal time for a lot of people, we may have two Splash
Groups on Wednesday night. Pastor Brian has been espousing a model of both
large (Sunday morning with JulieAnn/3rd Saturday) and small groups
(Splash Group).
So what
will Tim be doing?
My job with
the youth next year will be spending as much face to face time discipling
time with as many youth and adults as possible. Each Sunday morning,
I will be meeting weekly with either the Splash Group adult leaders, or else
the Vanguard. We are both going to go through Real Life Discipleship book, or a
Lutheran variation of those if I can get it written in time. I will be making
my way around to each of the Splash Groups during the week (including
occasionally the Wed night Splash Group(s)). I will also be going to lunches in
the area high schools with your teens – as well as your teens’ friends. My intentional
outreach for the coming year will be the under-served Franklin Pierce High
School.
I liked
large group Wednesday nights – why can’t we still have them?
We are
hoping that your large-group desire will be fed by the 3rd Saturday
events, retreats (Winter Retreat), special events (New Year’s Eve All-Nighter),
as well as the weekly Sunday morning gatherings. Also, if Splash Group A is
doing an event, Splash Groups B, C and D are also welcome to join them.
This is all
brand new to us. We are also open to discussion of other ideas.
I’m on
board! How do I get signed up to a Splash Group?
Several
Splash Group leaders and the Vanguard have already begun the process of
inviting 8th graders into their existing groups. Nothing is official
until the End of Summer Potluck, Aug. 27. I will be meeting with Splash Group
leaders – new and old – in the coming months to solidify schedules. Again,
Satan’s favorite weapon is “logistics,” so be prepared to be flexible!
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